Bismillah
Assalamualaikum everyone ☺️
I don’t have any specific topic to write about but i feel like writing something.
There are some things that happens in our life that we feel hard to accept it. And sometimes we like to ask questions that we already knew the answer, hoping what you’re thinking at that time are not true.
We might take weeks, months or even years to accept it.
But always remember that Allah S.W.T already remind us that;
During that time to heal/accepting I know it’s hard not to breakdown when memories running through your mind.
We might start questioning everything that is happening, why Allah choose us, why do we have to go through this pain and etc.
Just let those feelings flow inside you, acknowledge that feelings.
“If you hold back on the emotions – if you don’t allow yourself to go all the way through them – you can never get to being detached, you’re too busy being afraid. You’re afraid of the pain, you’re afraid of the grief. You’re afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails.
But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your head even, you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then can you say,
”All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognize that emotion. Now I need to detach from that emotion for a moment.”
— Tuesdays With Morrie
If you guys watch disney movie “inside out” you will learn that feeling sad is not a bad feeling, so don’t ignore it. Beside happy life doesn’t meant not having any sad moment in your life.
I promise you my love everything that happens in your life has a reason behind it, you might not see it now and maybe not tomorrow but always believe in Allah because He is the one who planned everything and He planned everything beautifully.
Allah love you more that anyone ever will.
And no one is really ever “alone”.
Don’t despair okay?
Have faith that there’s beauty in the struggle.
Promise me when things gets hard always remember that Allah is with you.
And promise me to always forgive yourself and people around you.
Take a deep breath and let everything go.
Dear Sofia 